30 Things I Learned in 30 Years.


1.) Age is just a number. I feel more comfortable & beautiful in my own skin then I ever have in my whole life. Don't give in to the idea that just because you are a certain age that you can't do something or start something new!

2.) Inspect what you expect. If you expect something to happen, you better look into it and make sure it's on track for what you want.

3.) Consider the source.

4.) Everyone's perception of what's beautiful is different.

5.) You can't worry about what you can't control.

6.) Love yourself first.❤️

7.) Time is one of the most valuable things we have. Don't waste it doing something you don't want to do.

8.) Live Life simply. You can want to acquire more or learn to need less.

9.) Endorphins really do make you feel good. Find a workout routine that makes you feel good. One that works with your schedule and can challenge you. Don't be afraid to change it and try something new.

10.) Karma is real. ✌🏽

11.) You can do anything you want on this earth.

12.) Don't eat your roommates leftovers. (In my defense, it was a onion blossom from the Outback!!😬)

13.) Your children will teach you lessons while you're teaching them.👩‍👧

14.) Too much of anything isn't good.

15.) Closed mouths don't get fed. Don't expect people to know what you want if you don't speak up and ask for it.🙋🏼

16.) Organize it! It will make your life easier in the long run. My favorite thing to keep organized is my fridge! I almost always know what I have on hand so planning my grocery list for the week is a snap!

17.) Your ego isn't your friend. There's always gonna be someone that has something or does something better than you. A bigger house, longer hair, clearer skin, a larger family, nicer car...Just keep improving your personal best and try not to compare yourself to others...especially when it comes to material items or looks (Hint: limit your time on social media 🤔)

18.) Making women feel beautiful is what I'm meant to do with my life. Finding your purpose or "your why" will make you live a much more purposeful driven life.

19.) Choose love over fear.

20.) Music makes almost everything better. Turn it on!🎼

21.) Take care of yourself. A good night's sleep and vitamins do actually keep you healthier.

22.) Love is a verb. You have to show it if you want to grow it.

23.) If you live spherically in many directions and never lose your childish enthusiasm, things will come your way.

24.) Be grateful for what you have.

25.) You can't please everyone. Stop trying.

26.) You can't start a new chapter if you keep rereading the old.📖

27.) You are what you do not what you say you will do. I used to love to watch videos on youtube about motivation for life and business. I would spend hours listening to speakers and interviews thinking that I would get the kick in the @$$ that I needed to grow my business and guess what I was actually doing to grow my business?? Not much! I had to unplug from the videos and grind out some serious hustle. Whether it meant spending hours emailing brides, contacting venues or creating a new fitness routine, nothing was going to happen if I didn't start putting some serious action behind it. It wasn't long after this that I started getting noticed for my hard work and it felt so good!!! 👊🏼

28.) Cherish everyday. One day my daughter will grow up, move out and have a family of her own. I know eventually I'll look back and wish I had a living room full of babydolls and coloring books. Scattered lego pieces and cookie crumbs won't be there forever so although I love a super clean house, I try to not stress about it.

29.) Change is good. 👌🏼 Be open to possibilities and possibilities will be open to you.

30.) Trust God's plan. It's all going to work out.

31.) Your word is your bond. You have to Keep it or people won't believe what you say.